Genesis 31

Genesis 31:1-13 Family Pow Wow
31:1-13 God commands Jacob to return.
Why do you think that Laban’s attitude had changed?
Jacob wanted to return, but what did he expect to find there? Esau, Rebekah?
31:3- God promises Jacob his presence.
V9 Jacob attributes his increase to God.

Family Pow Pow: Jacob tells his wives how their father has treated him.
Was this news to them?
Why do you think God reminded Jacob of his vow? What was the vow? 28:20-22
If you will be with me, and keep me on this journey, give me food and clothing, and I return in safety, then you will be my God and I’ll tithe.
Did God’s promise depend on Jacob’s safe return?
31:14-18 Rachel and Leah support Jacob.
What reasons do the girls give for siding with Jacob over Laban?
No inheritance
Status as foreigners by father
Laban sold us and spent the money
God has taken Laban’s wealth and given it to Jacob
God has spoken to you.

31:19-37
God speaks to Laban
Jacob deceives Laban
Rachel steals the household idols
Laban catches up with the convoy

What do Rachel’s actions say about her relationship with Jacob?
Are you surprised that God would speak to Laban?
Did Laban trust Rachel and Leah?
Was Jacob truthful when he told Laban why he left without warning?

31:38-53 The Agreement
Jacob tells his side of the story
What did Jacob agree to? Not to mistreat the girls or to return to do harm.
What did Laban agree to? Not to pursue Jacob for harm.
V53 – who did they swear by?

Jacob was being obedient to God in leaving Paddan-aram, but he faced difficulty in getting out of his current situation. Obedience is not always easy, nor is it easy to deal with life’s sticky situations. BUT God is faithful to keep his promises. He was with Jacob, and he is with us during our challenges in life, particularly when they come up as a result of our obedience to Him.