Jonathan
Who was your
best friend in High School, what did you spend time doing together?
Jonathan is
first described in 1 Samuel 14:1-5 when he wins a battle while relying on the
Lord for his victory. From that passage we can see that Jonathan is one who
depends on God and places God’s work above his own.
Just prior to these verses,
David kills Goliath
1 Samuel 18:1-5
Now it came about when he had finished speaking to Saul, that the
soul of Jonathan was knit to the soul of David, and Jonathan loved him as
himself. 2 Saul took him that day and did
not let him return to his father’s house. 3 Then
Jonathan made a covenant with David because he loved him as himself. 4 Jonathan stripped himself of the robe that was on him
and gave it to David, with his armor, including his sword and his bow and his
belt. 5 So David went out wherever Saul sent
him, and prospered; and Saul set him over the men of war. And it was
pleasing in the sight of all the people and also in the sight of Saul’s
servants.
The end of chapter 18 describes how Saul (Jonathan’s father) became
jealous of David and was afraid of him and wanted to kill him.
1 Samuel 19:1-7
Now Saul told Jonathan his son and all his servants to put David to
death. But Jonathan, Saul’s son, greatly delighted in David. 2 So Jonathan told David saying, “Saul my father is
seeking to put you to death. Now therefore, please be on guard in the morning,
and stay in a secret place and hide yourself. 3 I
will go out and stand beside my father in the field where you are, and I will
speak with my father about you; if I find out anything, then I will tell you.”
4 Then Jonathan spoke well of David to Saul his
father and said to him, “ Do not let the king sin against his servant David,
since he has not sinned against you, and since his deeds have been very [b]beneficial
to you. 5 For he took his life in his hand
and struck the Philistine, and the Lord brought about
a great deliverance for all Israel; you saw it and rejoiced. Why then
will you sin against innocent blood by putting David to death without a cause?”
6 Saul listened to the voice of Jonathan, and Saul
vowed, “As the Lord lives, he shall not be put to death.” 7
Then Jonathan called David, and Jonathan told him all these words. And
Jonathan brought David to Saul, and he was in his presence as formerly.
What does it take for two people’s souls to be knit together?
Jonathan’s
Qualities as a Godly Friend –
Selfless Humility – He virtually abdicated the throne
He was an advocate for David
Jonathan was loyal to David through thick and thin.
What are some
of the qualities (Of friendship) we see in Jonathan?
To have a
friend like Jonathan, you have to be a friend like Jonathan.
Why is it
such a challenge to be a friend who shows humility, is an advocate, and be
loyal. (XYZ)
For most of
us, our spouse is the closest friend we have. Can a married person have a
friendship like David and Jonathan?
What does
this passage reveal about God’s pattern for our lives?
What does
this passage teach us about God?